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The Memorialist: Lessons on Life

Author: Burton Fletcher
Publication Date: 2006-01

Last fall, I received an email from someone that spoke of the “Lessons on Life.” Though the original author is unknown, the lessons are instructive and worth passing along.

The following pictures are of the same place but taken under different seasons.

Lessons on Life

“There was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn not to judge things too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away.

The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer, and the youngest son in the fall.

When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to describe what they had seen.

The first son said that the tree was ‘ugly, bent, and twisted.’

The second son said, no, it was ‘covered with green buds and full of promise.”

The third son disagreed; he said it was ‘laden with blossoms that smelled so sweet and looked so beautiful, it was the most graceful thing’ he had ever seen.

The last son disagreed with all of them; he said it was ‘ripe and drooping with fruit, full of life and fulfillment.’

The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because they had each seen but only one season in the tree's life.

He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person, by only one season, and that the essence of who they are and the pleasure, joy, and love that come from that life can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are up.

If you give up when it's winter, you will miss the promise of your spring, the beauty of your summer, fulfillment of your fall.

Moral: Don't let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest. Don't judge life by one difficult season. Persevere through the difficult patches, and better times are sure to come some time or later.”


About Burton Fletcher:  Burton Fletcher, with over 20 years’ business experience, owns USAMonuments.com.    He has published articles on memorialization in newspapers and trade associations, including the Monument Builders of North America, International Cemetery and Funeral Association and YB News, a national publication read by more than 10,000 funeral home owners.   He is a licensed memorialist who designs, builds, ships and installs across the United States and Canada.   Burton is the founder and president of the Georgia Monument Builders Association.   Reach Burton at 229.245.8858 or e-mail to Burton@USAMonuments.com for all your memorial needs.   © Burton Fletcher 2006 All Rights Reserved.

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